newyearnewyou

Quality time?

Don't waste your time on a non-starter or let things get stale - now is the time to get out or spice things up.

Spring clean

Are you really happy deep down or is it time for a fresh start?

If you just go with the flow, you can lose sight of where your relationship is actually going. Maybe you've just become too comfortable and a bit lazy, or maybe the relationship has run its course.

Life's too short to be hanging around in a stale relationship and you need to do what will make you both happiest... even though it may be hard at first.

Get dating again

A partner isn't just for Valentine's Day, they're for life! Make sure you get your quality fun time in, whether it's a weekly night out together (see going out) or a monthly break (see travel).

It's important to have experiences as a couple and discover new things, including about one another.

Keeping it hot

It's so easy to get stuck in a bedroom rut and be too "tired" at the end of the day, but just think back to what it was like when you first met - remember the passion and the excitement!

Turn up the temperature again by trying new saucy antics in new places, or just invest in some new sexy underwear. (shopping link)

Me time

You may want to be with your other half 24/7 but it's healthy to have some quality time for yourself too.

Whether it's playing computer games, pampering yourself or going off for a long walk, make sure you have your own space. This also includes hanging out with your mates and family, which will give you a more rounded life and more to talk about when you and your partner are together.

Think quality, not quantity.

21-07-2008